our story

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our mission

OkaySo is a nonprofit that provides teens with barrier removing access to trained health experts they couldn’t reach any other way using innovative technology and youth-informed design. We envision a world where all individuals know and love their bodies, identities, and selves so that they can live freely and authentically as who they truly are.

We do this by pairing young adults with trained experts through a secure and confidential free app accessible on all smartphones, and connecting teens with partner agencies who can provide additional support where they live.

Founded in 2018 by queer sexuality health educators who work with young people, we are a nonprofit that combats the shame, stigma, and misinformation that plague our society. Through OkaySo, we are reinventing the support service ecosystem to democratize public health access for youth. When we connect every young person with adults they can trust, we help them become comfortable with the most intimate, personal, and vulnerable topics in their lives, helping young people make positive behavior changes that last a lifetime.

our values

At OkaySo, we want to inspire growth, and we believe that happens when:

We encourage
people to show up
as their complete
selves…

Member quotation: "While I was reading what you sent I already started to feel better. I'm not a monster to you, I shouldn't see myself that way either. So thank you for your perception."
  • We believe that there’s strength in vulnerability, that our differences are what make us interesting, that everyone is normal. We show up as ourselves – whoever that may be on any given day – and invite others to do the same. In all our work we aim to meet people wherever they are, recognizing they are the experts in their own lives. We don’t claim to have all the answers, but we do bring open minds, encourage bravery, and elicit multiple perspectives. We value the practice of being comfortable with discomfort, and do our best to lovingly support others as they grow.

with the
entire context
of their lives
respected and…

Member quotation: "Thank you. Feeling really proud of myself and the growth it took for me to get to this point. On the road to being the best version of myself."
  • We hold in our imaginations a liberated world, where all humans are able to live authentically as themselves, free from oppression of any kind. We see that structural, institutional, and cultural gatekeeping; power dynamics; and limiting assumptions often prevent young people from seeking and receiving the help they deserve. We fight for more equitable access every day by breaking down these barriers in order to connect young people to vital information, resources, and support. We are radically inclusive, feminist, and anti-racist. We believe that the diversity of our staff, partners, and the young people we serve is something to be celebrated and embraced. We do our best to regularly check our own biases, acknowledge our privilege, seek common ground, and honor what makes us different.

connect
authentically
with others in a
space they can trust.

Member quotation "YES thank you so much. I honestly thought I'd get a machine automated response but this was really genuine and helpful this feels amazing. Thank you again."
  • We may use technology to reach young people, but at the heart of it, we are human beings connecting with other human beings. We strive to build a collaborative, empowering community of care where we put judgments aside, provide needed support, and remember to celebrate successes. Our work is based in science, medical fact, and evidence, but when we answer questions, we lead with empathy and warmth, not statistics. We are casual and conversational, talking in accessible language that people can understand. Being human also means we are far from perfect. We know we won’t always get things right and want to hear from others when that’s the case so we can continue improving in positive ways.

the founding team

Elise Schuster and Francisco Ramírez, cofounders of OkaySo, met in 2007 during a Masters of Public Health program at Columbia University and we instantly clicked. We were working on various side projects together when we got the initial idea for OkaySo after a conversation about how we felt sexuality education could be doing more to meet young people where they are.

about elise

Elise Schuster, MPH (they/them), is a sexuality educator with 15 years of experience in youth development and sexual health education. Elise has a masters in public health from Columbia University with a specialization in sexuality and health and began their work in public health at Physicians for Reproductive Health, training doctors to provide adolescent-friendly reproductive health care. Elise also spent many years teaching workshops at Babeland and having thousands of one-on-one educational pleasure-based sexual health conversations.

After their MPH, Elise spent almost a decade at a premiere NYC youth development center serving over 11,000 marginalized young people every year. Elise had several roles here including running intake and assessment for over 30 new young people every day, overseeing capacity building work, managing student volunteers, launching a professional training institute, and a youth council, and overseeing a $6.5 million wraparound services grant with twelve subgrantee partners.

Elise is a skilled trainer, facilitator and consultant who helps companies and organizations become more LGBTQ-friendly. Elise is featured as an entrepreneur in the award-winning book Leapfrog, is a Roddenberry Foundation Fellow, and an Ashoka Fellow, and served as an adviser and contributor on gender and sexuality for The Social Justice Dictionary.

about francisco

Francisco Ramírez (they/he) holds a Master of Public Health (concentration in sexuality & health) from Columbia University's Mailman School of Public Health where he was named a Rosenfield Scholar in Sexual and Reproductive Health.

For 20 years, Francisco has dedicated his career to responding to the sexual health and public health needs of diverse communities worldwide. He has led multi-lingual training, education and research efforts for organizations including: the United Nations (UNICEF, UNAIDS, UNFPA, UN Department of Peacekeeping Operations), MTV, Planned Parenthood, Durex, Hetrick-Martin Institute, Albert Einstein College of Medicine, New York Academy of Medicine, and the NAACP.

Francisco also serves as a prominent voice in the media on sexual health issues. He is a regular host and producer at MTV as well as other television networks. His contributions include overseeing production of content for the award-winning MTV Staying Alive campaign and serving as a Global Correspondent for MTV Voices. Francisco is also sought out to create dynamic multimedia content for health education organizations.

meet our board

employment and internship opportunities

We do not currently have any open paid positions and our summer 2024 internships are full.

If you are interested in interning with us in the fall, please reach out around June 2024!

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